Finding Love Online
Dating
apps aren’t just for short-term relationships, hookups, or
one-night stands. You can find true love and a life-long partner if
you’re willing to invest time and patience. Zepeel, similar to free
dating apps like bumble,
is a great app for those that are interested in finding
love online.
Using
video chats and video profiles is a great way to find not only a
better match but true love. Since you can communicate far more about
yourself through video than text messaging or phone calls, the video
features used on Zepeel give you the ability to forge stronger,
deeper connections with other users before meeting in person. You can
see their facial expressions and how they react to what you say,
which can help you find true love easier than text messaging because
written communication can lack a deeper emotional connection.
When
making your profile, share that you are looking for a long-term match
and want to find true love. Being honest about your goals helps you
weed out bad matches. Share what you consider your ideal relationship
and partner. If you want to have a large family, make sure you say
that. Likewise, if you know you never want kids, be upfront so you
don’t end up with a great match who is committed to having
children, which could prevent a long-term relationship from
developing.
Since
you are looking for love, you want to be more stringent about what
you want in a match. List not only the qualities you absolutely know
you want in a partner but also complete deal breakers. It may take
some time to find the right match but hold strong to what you want in
a partner. There are certain qualities that you may not be able to
accept in a long-term relationship, and regardless of what they are,
disclosing them right away prevents bad matches and dead-end first
dates.
When
you start matching with other users, take extra time to get to know
them before agreeing to a date. Besides looking over their profile,
video chat with them a few times. If you don’t feel a strong
connection after several video chats, it’s likely not worth meeting
for a date. Before video chatting, think of a few questions to ask to
learn more about the person, like their goals in life or their ideal
relationship. Beyond looking for an emotional connection, look to see
if their plans in life and goals match yours.
For
example, if you want someone who is driven, see if the other person
has specific career goals or life goals, and a plan to achieve them.
Once you find a good match and are ready to meet for a first date,
consider doing something casual. To relieve any pressure, because
first dates are always awkward, propose that, if things go well, you
can later grab dinner.
For
your first date, consider doing something you not only enjoy but
would regularly do if you both were in a long-term relationship. If
you are a huge music fan, consider going to a concert. Doing an
activity, you consider to be a weekly or monthly occurrence in the
relationship on a first date can help you gauge not only if you are
compatible, but if you have a deeper connection and if things would
work long term.
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